你唔好話我偏見,
真係一代不如一代,
噚日朋友先講過請人請到嘔血,
有啲見工遲到sorry都無聲,
有啲唔黎電話都無個,
有啲面試又答非所問,
成日見足八個無個掂!
今日睇報紙見到啲重誇張,
見工要帶埋阿媽或男朋友一齊喎,
唔係淨係陪佢去等咁簡單,
而係要陪埋佢入會客室一同面試喎,
真係千奇百怪物人都有,
有個重離舖呀,
第一日返工連阿媽都帶埋去,
你估幼稚園返學咩,
十幾廿歲人仲要阿媽帶,
真係請黎都哂氣啦,
叫佢返屋企飲奶啦!
而家啲後生仔咁鬼廢,
佢地啲父母都要負上好大責任,
由細到大呵護備致,
搞到佢地飯來張口,
衣來伸手咁樣,
小學升中學父母揀嘅,
初中升高中父母揀嘅,
上大學找資料又係父母代勞,
有物大鑊嘢又係老豆老母頂住,
樣樣幫啲仔女做哂,
搞到佢地無哂獨立能力,
物都要靠人,自己好似廢物一樣,
而家連見工返工都要阿媽陪,
唔通第時洞房都叫埋老豆老母指導咩,
真係一蟹不如一蟹!
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"唔通第時洞房都叫埋老豆老母指導咩,"
咁呢樣你可以同佢定哦, 佢地呢方面好早熟, 生埋仔時都分分鐘未唸完中學! 你忘記了早前的公園示愛篇, 日光日白咁求偶, 這叫做真係一蟹"叻過"一蟹!
I have a friend who's son is studying in Medical school in Oxford. Every holiday, she goes to Oxford just to pick her son up to come back to Hong Kong.
For beginning of term, she will help her son to move in to the school hostel and at the end of the term, she will go to help him to pack. My friend is so proud of herself doing all these to his son.
There's nothing new about mother accompanying the child to interview, even it's for the job of a doctor.
吓，睇埋阿Ruth果段，簡直要爆血管呀！救命呀！！！
我都曾經負責過幫公司請人，睇見工
既人填表就夠搞笑，技能同專長居然
可以寫桌球呀、打機呀！問你死未？
I'm glad that the kids that I am dealing with are not that bad..... those bad apples got dropped out from the dept when they were in year 1.....sometimes I wonder how could they make their way to finish college? cheating? or copying.....?
咁你唔問佢: 妹妹，你乖乖地坐坐樹，你阿媽好快就見完工，跟住接你返屋企架喇！
I have a friend studying for bachelor degree in Hong Kong. Her mom still picks her up from school every day. I've told her to be more independent. Don't know if she got offended or not.
Ruth, don’t surprise with your case of mom picking up from school everyday though she is already an undergraduate. One of my friends is just in this case and the habit still maintained though she was in her postgraduate studying. She home returned with her sister daily but her mom would pick her up if it was just herself alone or night returning. She functions very well in her study or deals with pp but just home pick-up this issue.
Dear all,
睇完你哋嘅留言,
真係『一山還有一山高』呀!!!!
唔該揾人俾把刀仔我啦,
我想死呀~~~~~ *_*!!!
我老豆都成日想送我番大陸, 我次次都呃佢話有朋友同我一齊番佢先放心 =p
宜家部份年青人真係唔知咩叫刻苦耐勞. 好大可能係當小朋友需要學習獨立o個陣, 父母冇適當咁給予機會.
becky,
一個女仔返大陸又係危險啲,
不過你都要小心啲喎!
同意你的睇法,
做父母真係要俾多啲機會佢地去獨立吓先得了!唔係個個變哂群腳仔就大劑啦!
拖埋條仔同呀媽都好既
可以嚇下人= .=
伊麵丹,
咁佢一定好成功了,
真係會俾佢嚇死呀,
咁都得!!!!
你係咪講梗我呀....不過我想將來我一定唔會倍嗰仔女見工或返工的, 怕到時我已咩咩咩咗了...
tonia,
我唔明喎,
你係咁嘅咩?
唔係咁好喎,
細路哥要俾佢地獨立面對吓問題先快大嘛! :)
各位我就係新鮮人提到o個個In人In 到想死的朋友..
睇完你地的留言, 我覺得自己都還算好彩, 起碼冇見到d 類似呀媽或男女朋友o既人一齊黎見工!
我十分贊同大家話依家d 細路攪成o甘, 父母係要負很大部分的責任. 他們太保護小朋友, 剝奪細路去體驗失敗的權利. 對d 小朋友其實都好唔公平, 令他們失去一種學習機會, 同時失去磨練自己, 提升自己競爭能力的機會.
木頭狗,
你遲咗啲呀,
唔係一定好多人會同你討論吓架! :)
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